Studies have shown time and again that pretty people have an advantage over
unattractive people. Most human beings harbor generally superficial
tendencies, which is why most people respond to marketing that features
attractive models and celebrities.
Attractive people are more likely to become leaders, make more money,
get better opportunities, and attract other attractive people as mates.
But beauty is not the only thing that makes people attractive.
There are many people out there with slightly better than average looks
who are a magnet for adoration. Think hard about the attractive people
you know. You'll find that most aren't movie star material and you
likely know some who are beautiful on the outside but not so attractive
once you get to know them.
Incredibly attractive people make it their business to stay attractive regardless of how life shines upon them. Here's how they do it, along with suggestions how you can be more attractive as well.
1. They smile ... a lot.
Incredibly attractive people love life, all aspects of it. They
thrill to challenges as much as they enjoy the rewards of success. They
make the most of every minute and live in the moment. They are not
afraid to share their joy in their movements and on their face. Feeling
unattractive? Try finding the little joys in your day and express each positive notion with a big smile. Soon people will wonder what's causing your happiness and want to join you.
2. They dress to kill.
Dressing well doesn't require a lot of money, but it does require a bit of thought and attention.
Incredibly attractive people are fashion conscious not due to vanity
but because they know that clothing can set the right mood and tone.
They know when to dress it up or
take it casual to fit the appropriate environment. You can feel a bit
more together by studying up on a few fashion blogs or going shopping
with a friend that has good taste. Wear fashion proudly and people will
notice.
3. They are careful about what comes out of their mouths.
Nothing makes pretty people ugly faster than stupid things they say.
Incredibly attractive people know that you don't have to be the smartest person in
the room to maintain interest, but demonstrating your ignorance is sure
to push people away. Mystery and attraction go together. Given the
opportunity, say enough to pique interest and always leave people
wanting more of your brain.
4. They are careful about what goes into their mouths.
Not everyone can be skinny, and people of all shapes and sizes are
widely considered beautiful, but incredibly attractive people manage their bodies. How and what they eat matters
to others because food is an important part of the social construct.
Bad habits such as gum, cigarettes and too much alcohol can knock
attractiveness down quickly, even though people won't say anything.
Don't let over indulgence and poor choices get in the way of the respect
people should have for you.
5. They listen.
Many people are preoccupied with themselves and what's on their own
mind. So when someone genuinely shows interest in another and listens,
they immediately strengthen their connection with that person. I have
personally become closer with a mere acquaintance through sharing an
important story. Incredibly attractive people have mastered the art of
listening. Try doubling your personal listening-to-talking ratio for a
week and enjoy the noticeable difference.
6. They learn.
There is no question that smart is sexy and ignorance is ugly.
Incredibly attractive people know you don't have to be a brainiac to
maintain admiration, but it helps to be aware of current events and develop your mind. Dedicate an hour a day to making yourself smarter and watch a whole new class of people join you in discussion.
7. They take care of themselves.
It's difficult to be around people who neglect themselves. It's often
a clear sign of low self-esteem. Incredibly attractive people hold
themselves in high regard. They are strong in self-confidence and
care about their bodies. They enjoy life and want to be around for as
long as possible. Make your own body a priority. You don't have to be a
perfect specimen, but good hygiene and maintenance go a long way to show
people that you matter.
8. They take care of others.
A generous spirit is a huge attractor. Incredibly attractive people
know that selfishness can is ugliest on the physically fortunate. There
is something magical about genuine altruism. Give of yourself freely and the universe will embrace you and shower you with love.
9. They make others feel attractive as well.
I'm not an ugly guy but I certainly won't make the list for People
Magazine's Sexiest Men Alive this year. Still, when I am with incredibly
attractive people I don't feel deficient. I feel like a part of the
glitterati because of the way they treat me and include me in their happiness and
joy of life. Each person you meet brings something special to your
world. Make sure you enhance theirs with the best you have to offer.
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